I had always had an overly simple view of male sex chemistry, even after I began to study the current talk about them (that I summarized here). I thought that they were all tied up with semen and that if a man expelled semen he lost the oxytocin he had built up. I look back and realize that was dumb. Hormones and neuro-transmitters working on the brain are not all stored in the balls and certainly dont effect the brain just from way down there.
I am talking about this because I was worried about hubby’s balls. I read all over the place that not expelling semen for a long long time is unhealthy. I dont want to harm those balls or that prostate. They are mine.
My solution for a long time was relatively frequent release. About every week and a half to two weeks. It worked ok, but it took him three to five days to get fully back in form. This kind of worked okay for a long time. But later I read things that if true give me other options.
If it is true that the release of Prolactin and the other changes that knock a man out of his proper subservient uphoria happen only in the final contractions of expelling semen from the penis then maybe a “ruined” orgasm, in which I stop touching him at the very very last moment and he does not get to spurt but cum still oozes out of him will clean out old jizz while not making him forget that he is my puppy.
And if it is true that just emptying the prostate by milking prostatic fluid out is enough to promote health then even better. I have found that just by milking him that way I can either leave him limp or bring him painfully close to orgasm again and again while draining out his juices.
But the problem is that I do not know how accurate these things are. So now I am compromising with a schedule that varies a lot but is on average something like this:
Constantly (several times on most days, seldom skip more than one day): teasing and edging.
Every week: prostate milking. Sometimes more frequently.
Every two weeks: a couple of ruined orgasms.
Every month or month and 1/2: a full orgasm, always as a reward for especially good or especially submissive behavior.
Sometimes I have done things very differently for a while. About 6 months ago during a time when I felt like the brainwashing recordings and hypnotism were working pretty well, I had him listen to a recording that just said “you are submissive to me, you want nothing but to please me” for one to two steady hours per day.
Then during that time, for fun, to confuse him, and to reinforce the brainwashing message I made him cum two or three times a day for four days in a row. Most of this had to be with my hitachi which is a way I can almost always make him cum no matter how many times he has recently. I think for bitchboy it was like paradise and torture at the same time. I drained him dry and it was a very intense experience for both of us.
I will not do it very often because it made him really tired and weak and flat for more than a week, and he started to get a little depressed so I had to put a lot of effort into cheering him. Not because I dont have the right to make him feel depressed and weak because I do of course. But because of two things: I love him and I want him to be happy, and because he is of very little use to me when he is too drained to stand up or smile.
But mixing things up radically always puts him off balance and lets me get a little bit more control of him and that is always a good thing. I love to see the uncertainty on his face when he does not know what the hell he should be doing.